Top 3 Lessons I Learned in 2017!

2017 is quickly coming to an end. This year literally flew by, but I’m still grateful that I was able to get through it. This post is dedicated to some of the lessons I was able to learn throughout the year. I decided to share some because I know it could possibly help someone who stumbles upon it. Lesson One: As we grow, we’re introduced to so many people. We don’t always know off bat who we’re dealing with. The devil doesn’t care who or what he uses to get to you. (Now, I look at it this way.. you may not.) Whether it’s a friend or someone you view as more than that... we’ve all had our share of seasonal relationships. Don’t get me wrong, seasonal relationships aren’t a bad thing. Sometimes we look at it as such, but I think that’s because the seasonal people often seem to be the ones who are supposed to be there for a lifetime. I’ve made this mistake this year. I happen to be the type of person who easily forgives and accepts others back into my life knowing they haven’t changed but hopes that they will... you know, since you DID give them another chance to get it right. But when someone shows you who they are the first time.... believe them and set them free. I’ve learned to be for me this year. To put myself and my feelings first for once. Although I’m so forgiving and open to restoration of certain relationships, I’m also one to have my feelings hurt easily. So 2017 has taught me to know who has my best interest at heart. If they don’t care for your feelings the first time around, they won’t the second or third. Never let these people continuously put you and your feelings last. Let them go the first time they show you who they are or else they will get the idea that they can do you any way at any time. They keep showing you who they are for a reason. It’s JUST a season for them and that’s ok. Lesson 2: This is for my college/business owners/creatives out there. First and foremost, never depend on people to be there during your times of needing support. Especially those who aren’t seeking success themselves. It’s perfectly fine to have 1 or 2 people behind you throughout your journey. Don’t ever think less of yourself because you have a lack of support for whatever endeavor you're seeking after. I’ve had my share of thinking some people would be 110% behind any and everything I thought of. It doesn’t always work that way. Being black and from a small town where there’s very few CEO’s and verrrrry few people who want the success you want, you don’t often get the support you want/need. This year taught me to not introduce my ideas and events to people (family included) who’s around me often. I’ve found that people who don’t know you are going to be your biggest supporters. Truthfully!!! I’ve had many events and things going on where no one in my hometown supported. Although it was expected, I was still taken back a bit. This taught me to only open my ideas to those who eagerly listen to me when I talk. I learned early on that people will say they support but never show that they do. Still, this is perfectly fine. Everyone won’t be there on your way up. Just keep setting goals and making your way through. You’ll see them later... trust me! Lesson 3: Over the past year or so, I’ve struggled to reach one specific goal/dream. There were times I cried because I thought I’d never reach it. However, I never stopped praying/working and I never stopped putting it in the atmosphere that I’d eventually reach it. I’m a firm believer in speaking things over your life. I also believe that writing down your goals and affirmations will subsequently bring them to pass. Although I felt so defeated and like I’d never get to where I wanted to be in life, I kept pushing no matter how hard it got for me. This year taught me that as long as I’m putting in work behind all of the prayers and written affirmations, I will eventually see things work in my favor. This is where “Faith without work is dead” comes in. I worked extremely hard for my goal. I prayed about it and I spoke it into my life despite the trials and tribulations. Not only did this year teach me to do those things, it also taught me to wait on God. I have been the one that wanted things to happen right when I wanted but when God puts his timing on things, I promise it’s much more appreciated. All in all, I’ve had a tremendous year. Although some things didn’t work out how I planned as far as relationships and support go, I still got closer to my life goal and I learned to be of faith even when things seem to be going downhill. If you’re reading this, I pray it helps you or even someone you know. Thanks so much for your time and I hope your new year is prosperous and full of blessings. -Briaalamode 🌻

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